Have you ever seen those incredibly talented make up artists who can transform themselves into a totally different person with some bomb contouring and eye shadow? Well, I am not that person. I can barely color inside the lines with my lipstick. And I didn’t even know contouring was a thing until I was in my 30’s.
Now regardless of your skill level or how you feel about make up in general, the stuff is basically magic. I mean, I once saw a woman turn herself into Nicki Minaj. And in case you’re wondering, she looked nothing like Nicki Minaj in real non-make up life.
On the other hand, there are also millions of YouTube videos for make up dummies like myself. Tutorials to help you enhance your beauty without going overboard. Or how to create a date night look that doesn’t resemble a Crayola massacre on your face.
And if you really think about it, intimacy can be the same way. It can transform said relationship into something much different than its initial intentions. Or it can enhance what God has already created, but at the right time and in the right context.
For those of you who aren’t following, here’s an example. You’ve been seeing this guy and you’re getting the hunch that he’s really a creep. But since there are no other prospects or even men looking your way, you decide to take things to the next level out of boredom and desperation. Whether that means kissing, sex, or the whole ‘everything but sex, technically still celibate’ category, you know you’ve crossed a line.
And once that line is crossed, this man’s character and attractiveness levels up from Gollum of Lord of the Rings to Great Gatsby Leo Dicaprio.